Context: https://diegelbetapete.com/2026/08/17/chronlogy-of-shame-pretext/

His request: X.

I did not tell him that I could not execute his request.

• I felt ashamed because I couldn’t execute it.
• I could not accept my error.
• I knew something was off and did not investigate.

→ I deprioritized him.
→ I deprioritized his perspective; in the moment, I did not feel myself into his side.

→ I ignored that my action/non-action would have consequences; wrong belief: if something is not addressed, it will go away without anyone being hurt… the exact opposite is the case: do not address something that you are aware of and the ground beneath your feet will become loose.

How do I make myself aware of these situations?

→ double-check his side, do not be afraid of the consequences!
→ double-check my feeling for something being „off“
→ SHOW LOVE!

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